Where are the
days that the light of the christmastree
reflected in my eyes and I saw plain innocense
mirrored in the silver ornaments? Only a few
years later my clear voice sounded through the
large church with the beautiful angels beside
the altar. The year that they were taken away
I was allowed to lay the large baby
Jesus in the humansized
christmasscene.
We were all very aware of
the Cold War and for the first time the
chaplain preached about the harsh realities in
other countries, instead of joy and
abundance. People thought he was doing the
wrong thing by taking away their feelings of
being absorbed in Christmas' cheer and silent
footsteps in the snow.
It was the first
year the christmascake didn't taste as
well, because I couldn't share it with all
those children that were poor, and lived in
war.
Times went by. Some years I
walked through the snow with my dad, one
christmas I conducted the children's
service.
I remember laying the table for
friends while feeling that deep hole inside
me of the loss of my daughter and
gram.
Years passed with babies on my
arm and years that 12months seemed to have
disappeared because there was so much to
do.
I've known abundance. I was always
grateful.
This year will be a silent
christmas. No need to invite people, as we
have barely enough simple food to share among
ourselves. Sinterklaas went by with only a
sweet for the youngest, and Santa sure won't
stop in our part of the world.
It's
sad.
But in a way I don't
mind. Because I'm so very angry.
People
neglected the people of Pakistan after the
earthquake of october 4. Now already many more
thousands have died because of the
winter. They have no shelter at
all.
So when singing about the
child in the manger think of the babies
dying in the icecold night. Because too few
people bothered, to give some money for tents
and blankets.
Jesus was lucky. His
parents were well fed. and even though it was
in a stable they had a warm place to
stay and shepherds caring.
I am angry, because people tell
me they want peace and keep the energy of
hatred, racism and war going.
They're just
the same as those people denying Mary a place
to rest, we too keep asylumseekers away from
the porch. We too have our opinions ready
before we even take the time to see who
the person is we're talking about.
I feel
like the chaplain of my childhood. I have to
speak out. Because it's easy to wish
peace to your neighbour. But you should
reach far beyond the borders of your own
existence.
Jesus said: "what you do
unto others, you do unto me."
Isn't that an
interesting theme for this year?
I
wish you very happy christmasdays with the
blessing of inner rest and peace.
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