Some facts about each year of my life up till now.


First 25 years ::here::


26.

My (spiritual) brother left. Worked a lot with young people and adolescents. Heard that I never would have children days before I became godmother.
27. Moved from the campus to a normal appartment at the third floor. It was so normal we even had a gossipping woman at the ground floor, peeking from behind the curtains with every move we made. LOL! Did a lot of glass engraving and other things.
28. Applied for a work- and studyplace in a hospital out of town and got the job. Thought it would be for 6 months, but stayed 2 years. I loved it!
29. Started at cancer care and research. Could use my own experiences (of the year before) to understand the people I worked with. Finished the training for family therapy. Started my thesis.
30. Gave birth to Stef. Finished my studies. Started a foundation to support women who had/have nowhere to go during pregnancy, and need support during and after birth, and to support those parents whose babies have died and the professionals who support them.
31. My grandmother died when I was three months pregnant. Gave birth to Jenny, who unexpectedly died two days later. Found out that people were so used to my support, that I got no support at all.
32. The foundation became a national organisation for parents of deceased children. Started to change protocols and customs in hospitals and mortuaries. Decided to councell people for free.
33. Gave birth to Lars. The day I came home from hospital I phoned with my fathers doc and he told me my father had uncurable cancer. He died in september. My last soulmate gone. Continued councelling. Made long weeks. Found out the truth about the death of Jenny.
34. Worked as a tutor at the medicine department of the university and did quite a lot of councelling at births/deliveries.
35. Gave birth to Thami, who nearly died after birth due a mistake of a doc. Informed day care centers about SIDS and medication that poses a risk. Informed midwifes and nurses about home heart- and lung-monitoring.
36. Met one of my best friends during childbirth classes. Gave birth to Nyo. Ran my own balletensemble, performing at schools.
37. Wrote a book. Gave lot of info about breastfeeding, pregnancy and other women subjects.
38. Met my (spiritual) brother again. Gave birth to Winnie, who died during pregnancy. Had a firm confrontation with one of the docs that did research in an unethical way, which lead to important changes in monitoring the ethical aspects of medical research.
39. Gave birth to the twins. Stopped councelling for a while as I had enough to do with 4 little boys and the twins. I realised that both Stef and Nyo might be autistic.
40. Translated and rewrote some books. Took the time to consult some docs. Got diagnosed with severe asthma, chronic bronchitis and a large number of allergies.
41. Had a hysterectomy. Started giving balletlessons again.
42. Started a balletgroup for grown up women. Became chairman of the parents-organisation of Stef's school, which was my former school.
43. Performed ballet on stage. Probably for the last time.
44. Was diagnosed with diabetes. It ruined my training for an important audition.
45. Got for the first time on internet. Wrote a lot, studied a lot. Was chairman of many organisations. And sang with a band. Found out more about my native indian roots.
46. Started to use more volume of air with my body. So diabetes and it's medication can make people fat. Wrote colums and did some councelling. My native sisters died.
47. Started informing people about ADHD, autism and some other handicaps. Studied a lot. Homeschooled Nyo after loads of problems with the school.
48. Divorced. Withdrew the legal part, but kept emotionally divorced. Took more time for spiritual development and started to train my voice more.
49. Joined a bagpipe band.
50. .


To keep the above a bit interesting I mentioned activities I did for years only once or twice.


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